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day in the life

Highlighting the everyday life of a couple living well with a slow-growing cancer. Life isn’t always easy, and there will certainly be sorrows and losses along the way. But being alive is good. It is very good.


Sunday, April 24, 2011

Wicked

We sat in a row with several young girls all dressed up for an evening at The Hult. “How lucky are we to get to sit by so many princesses,” I commented to the little girl next to me.

“We’re not really princesses,” she answered solemnly.

“Oh, well you look like a princess,” I smiled back.

“Thank you,” she said. “You look like a princess, too.” (So you see, royalty after all, because how gracious was that?)

             
 

Me with Princess Zamora

 

 

       

Gary hit another one out of the ballpark with this week’s Friday night date – tickets to the Broadway touring production of Wicked at Eugene’s Hult Center.

Wicked is the pre-story to the Wizard of Oz about the relationship between Glinda, the Good Witch, and Elphaba, the Wicked Witch of the West.

 

Waiting for Hult Center doors to open

Glinda tried so hard to impress others with her goodness ... but really, she was just full of herself.

Elphaba, who was shunned and misunderstood all her life—and who wouldn’t be, with green skin?—defended the defenseless and was willing to lay down her life so that her friend, Glinda, could go forward truly being good.

Wow, the Easter story at The Hult. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son. And I am Glinda.

   

The untold story of the witches of Oz

The little princess sitting next to me? Zamora was her name, and she sang along with a couple of the songs.

OK, so everyone knows the soundtrack to The Wizard of Oz, right? “We’re off to see the Wizard, the wonderful Wizard of Oz,” … and “Follow the Yellow Brick Road,” … and “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.” (Got you singing, didn’t I?!)

But who knows the lyrics to “Dancing Through Life” or “One Short Day”? Obviously Zamora and her fellow princesses.


Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Quintuplets!

I have a thing for geese. Their long graceful necks and plaintive honks as they fly overhead in Vand sometimes W, heck Ive even seen X—formations capture my imagination and give me a yearning for adventure.

And so I am pleased to report that my co-workers and I are the proud godparents of five goslings!

Today they practiced distracting us from our work – the ever-vigilant mama and papa parading their entourage near the pond outside our windows.

   

Three of the five fuzzy little critters

Being the expert undercover photographer, I nonchalantly wandered outdoors and snapped a few photos, pretending I wasnt paying any attention to them.

What is it about tiny, cute, fluffy (or furry) things that bring out the awwww in us?

All I have to say is, none of my co-workers were exempt from the cuteness that paraded outside the cancer center today.


Sunday, April 17, 2011

Busted

We were snapping a few photos undercover when one of the sales guys approached us. “You wanna be in one of our ads?”

“Nah, we’re just shooting for fun.”

“Yeah, we’ve been watching.”

Hmmm  ... maybe not so undercover.

Today we tried on a few recreational vehicles for size. Just for the fun of it.

You can see where hubby is heading with this.

   

Just a fancy Greyhound bus

 

   

I had a hard time prying Gary’s hands off the steering wheel

An RV the size of a city apartment. It didnt take long for hubby to lean back and prop his feet up.

   

If you like driving your apartment around with you ...

As for me – I like small and cute.

   

Small and cute

Um … too small and cute.

I stepped into a mini-RV – cleverly designed to make use of every square inch. Great gas mileage. But the bathroom doors open up to enclose and convert the kitchenette into a shower that drains out the kitchen floor. A little too clever for me.

   

Invading my space

I’m thinking we wouldn’t get out of the state before having some sort of “Youre invading my space conversation.

The medium-small RVs—not sure if medium-small is the correct industry terminology—would be my choice.

   

Hubby could get used to this

We travel light and we pretty much like each other … and when hubby starts to get on my nerves (or more likely, when I start to get on his), one of us could gravitate toward the outdoor living spaces.

   

Notice the flat-screen TV - sort of an outdoor man cave

Im thinking our marriage could survive a year on the road in one of the medium-small rigs. At least it would be fun trying!


Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Tough day at the office

A tough job, but someone had to do it. Today I cruised in one of those helicopters that you never want to ride in. You know, the kind with the red cross painted on the bottom.

   

One of the AirLink ships

Only today I was part of the crew. Well, maybe not exactly part of the crew, but they did give me my own helmet with microphone.

(The instructions were to keep the chatter down during take off and landing ... and believe me, I held my breath the entire time so they wouldn’t think I was chattering.)

   

No chattering from this passenger

Our mission: Drop more than 1,000 golf balls onto a targeted area in Farewell Bend Park.

   

 Raining golf balls

Today was a practice run for the first annual Wendy’s Wish Golf Ball Drop scheduled for August 7.

The idea is to buy a numbered golf ball that will get dropped with thousands of other golf balls from a helicopter on the appointed date.

You cross your fingers hoping your ball is nearest one of the holes for a prize. And if you don’t win, you will have contributed to a great grassroots organization that raises funds to assist local cancer patients.

So you see, either way, you do win.

   

And you thought flight nurses only saved lives ...

I’m happy to report today’s mission was successful ... and I’m almost sure they couldn’t have done it without me. ;)

   

Target practice from a bird’s eye view

P.S. If you’re ever in an accident on a remote stretch of central Oregon highway (heaven forbid) or you need a quick transfer to a medical facility in the valley, this is the ship you want to be on. And this is the team you want on board – Bill, Lead Pilot, with DeeDee and Ray, Flight RNs.

   

DeeDee, Ray and Bill (l to r)


Sunday, April 10, 2011

McKay Cottage

I did a quick purse change – downsizing and leaving my wallet at home because hubby was paying. Meanwhile, Gary changed clothes and left his wallet in his pocket. In the pants that were still on the bed.

We ate their food and discovered we had no cash, no checks, no credit or debit cards. Awkward.

The solution: Leave the wife at the restaurant as ransom and hurry home to get the wallet, hoping to not get stopped while driving without a license.

Good thing we were at McKay Cottage – one of Bend’s treasures. Not only did they serve us a delicious lunch in a lovely old Craftsman cottage, they let us go without making us wash their dishes: “Call back with your credit card number.”

   

McKay Cottage – one of Bend’s treasures

Gary had their special of the day – a lobster and crab melt on sourdough bread. I had the vegetarian quesadilla. Spinach, tomatoes, mushrooms and cheese in a tortilla with avocado slices, homemade pico de gallo, and a blended sauce of what I’m guessing was yogurt and chipotle with a smoked bacon flavor. Talk about yumm!

   

Quesadilla with spinach, tomatoes, mushrooms, cheese

Needless to say, when hubby called back with his credit card number, he included an extra nice tip.


Thursday, April 7, 2011

Random thoughts on a snowy April day

Woke up to a layer of winter white this morning. Sometimes central Oregonians complain about the long winters, but I love winter.

I don’t like being cold, but I love the magicalness of falling snow. I love snow-shoeing, and wearing hand-knit scarves, and fireplaces burning cheerily, and homemade soup simmering on the stove, and blueberry scones hot out of the oven – none of which you can do in the summertime. Well, maybe the scones.

In fact, one of the things on our bucket list would be to live at the foot of a mountain range with a gazillion lakes and trails and trees.

No, wait ... we already live there.

   

This morning’s walk along the Deschutes River

Our friends, Sam and Leanne—she’s a multiple cancer survivor—have generously donated their time these past several weeks leading an exercise class designed around hula hoops.

One of the things on their bucket list is to hit the road spreading hooping and healthful living to survivors across the country. I will be their biggest cheerleader when they set off: “You go, Sam and Leanne!” 

   

Hooping it up

I think items on a bucket list can be as specific or as general as you want. So, for example, instead of “Hike in the Alps”—which is something we plan to do—our list reads: “Hike in as many mountain ranges as possible.”

And even though we have enough saved to do an Alpine trek, with a job and taking time off to travel and speak, it probably makes more sense to tackle the Tetons this year and do the Alps when I’m no longer tied to an office desk.

   

One of many mountain ranges on our bucket list

So, increasing physical activity for healthier living, whether indoors or in spring snow: on our bucket list.


Sunday, April 3, 2011

Thai food and amazing grace

This weekend’s date was changed on the way to the date. “I’m kinda in the mood for take out and a movie in. Waddya think?” Hubby was on the same page.

So we detoured into an alley off 7th Street and got in line at Thai On The Fly, a drive-thru specializing in authentic Thai food housed in a tiny trailer operated by the cutest Asian women. (Incidentally, a place we had been looking for but, until this weekend, had been unsuccessful in locating.)

One of the women ran out to our vehicle offering sample tastings as we waited in line.

   

In line at the Thai food trailer, just off the alley near the lube place

The other woman, when she realized it was our first visit said, “Maybe you be back tomorrow!”

   

The food was delicious; we will be back, but probably not tomorrow!

I cant imagine the challenges these women faced in leaving their homeland, learning a new culture and language, and establishing a successful business.

Which brings us to the rest of our date, the movie, Amazing Grace.

It’s the incredible story of one man’s determination to do the right thing in the face of overwhelming opposition. 

William Wilberforce battled Parliament for 26 years before his efforts to abolish the slave trade in England finally met with victory.

       

The movies title comes from the words of John Newton who was a young sailor involved in the slave trade before he became a minister:

Amazing grace, how sweet the sound

That saved a wretch like me;

I once was lost, but now am found,

Was blind but now I see.

In the movie, William Wilberforces friend, William Pitt, was planning to run for Prime Minister. Pitt wanted Wilberforce in his government, but Wilberforce thought they were too young, still in their 20s at the time.

To which Pitt replied, “We are too young to realize that certain things are impossible, so we will do them anyway.”

Pitt becomes Englands youngest Prime Minister.

What are you too young (or too old, or too uneducated, or too culturally challenged) to do?

Do it anyway.

March 2011

Silk stockings

Cabin in the woods

Entertainment committee

Any excuse to celebrate

Ultimate cheerleader

Drum roll, please

Ordinary blessed weekend

Whats stopping you?

Nuh-uh

Texas hospitality

Mean guys like Mike

February 2011

Texas = What a country

Just to be on the safe side

Mudpies and lullabies

Christmas Valley

Getting plugged in

Blurring the lines

What goes around, comes

    around

January 2011

Might as well dance

Mexican-Peruvian marriage

Some attitude

For the birds

Glass castle

Friday night date in small town

    America

Family seasonings

Dads coat

Off to a great start

December 2010

Sharing your story

The night before Christmas

Christmas movies

Happiness studies

A years span

Stormy detours

Another black eye

Snooded

Winter play

November 2010

Adventuring

Feeling healthier already

Heart wide open

More fun than a grandparent

    ought to have

Private marathon tour guide

Choosing quality of life

Geese and GPS units

Thanksgiving month

October 2010

Knitting up a snow storm

Third times not a charm

The verdict is in

Resourceful assignment

High school audience

Accidental tart

Pepsi ... or not

Custom cakes

September 2010

Hundreds of quilts later

Wedded bliss

Teach a girl to fish

Rainy day chili

Living fully

Photography 101

No drop in the bucket

Family of elk

Scenic route

Red rocks and blue falcons

Alpine hiking

August 2010

Outdoor town

Perfect weekend

A big little life

Once in a lifetime

Summer weekend

Take five

Twenty years from now

July 2010

Beauty in the high desert

Another shot at life

Happy Hour

Almost perfect

Enjoying the journey

Birthday week kick-off

Ive become my mother

Bobby McFerrin + OBF

50 things to do Part II

June 2010

Like what you do

Colorado wildlife

Life is good wisdom

Sad day

Rocky Mountain high

Cowboy sing-along

My kind of town

Please dont feed the bears

Naming buildings

Low expectations

Heaven Can Wait

Because nice matters

May 2010

Don’t get to pick your family

It’s in the bag

Only in Hawaii

Japanese-Hawaiian wedding

Meeting Yoshi

Happy campers

Gearing up for Hawaii

Hitting a rock wall

Love story

Oversized check

Extraordinary ordinary life

April 2010

Technology and pedicures

Idaho ranch hands

Blonde moments

Being in community

Live strong

Cutting edge

Florida in April

Easter blessings

March 2010

Heading east

March Madness

Welcome to spring

Half birthdays

Destinations

Most romantic bridge

Stellar team

Talent

Upgrading into the 21st Century

February 2010

Uncles and nieces

Blue skies in Portland

The subject of heroes

Caliber of our friends

Courage walking

Only in Southern California

Well trained

Diversity

Cream of the crop

January 2010

End of the tunnel

Disturbing the snow

Good things come to an end

American mobile family

Get moving

Any excuse for a date

Much more than a sports flick

December 2009

All the facts are true

No-el, No-whale

Mountain snob

Going to Hawaii

Finding our own way

It's just a number

Seasons of Christmas

Civil War in the CTC

My life in France

November 2009

Empty cafeteria trays

A few of my favorite things

Counting eagles

America’s best and brightest

Thinking about

Large amounts of hope

Memories, milestones

Married to a very patient man

October 2009

Healing reins

Trail to nowhere

Above the fray

Knitting connections

Touching everything

Modern technology

Hot date spot

Red sock day

I got all my sisters with me

September 2009

Tenacious like a bulldog

Best years of my life

Now we should live

Across the high desert

50 things to do before you die

Anticipation

Summer past and random thoughts

Running to win

August 2009

Far cry from canned chili & peas

Knight in shining armor

Berry-Peach Cobbler

Roller coaster rides

Celebrating life

Dan in Real Life

Ridiculous

Gift of life

Grant-writing retreat

July 2009

Heartsore

In the moment

Extended birthday present

River traffic

Munch & Music

Dealing with the paparazzi

Midnight cruise

Behind red doors

June 2009

Happy kind of exhausted

4:30am blog

Fat checkmarks

One of the benefits of cancer

Calm before the storm

Big picture thinking

May 2009

Back to the real world

Quick trip to the EC

Audacious living

Connecticut adventure

April 2009

Flat Stanley in Ory-gun

Baby steps

Four-day weekend

Soaring on wings

Sunbathing C.O. style

Real men wear pink

Fun in the CTC

March 2009

Live like you were dying

Day jobs

Connected

CAN Cancer

The power of one

February 2009

It's official

Fun with the medical professionals

To my valentine

Moments in Jersey

January 2009

Leaving on a jet plane

Scans ordered

Welcome to life

Insane residents

Back in high school

Engaged crowd

Out of the mouths of babes

Divine intervention

December 2008

Christmas via webcam

A merry little Christmas

Somewhere on purpose

Adventure and romance

Celebrate life

Imagine

Men and menopause

November 2008

My Thanksgiving list

Thanksgiving Eve

Roundabouts

How Starbucks saved my life

Training for Switzerland

Radio interview

Super colon

Thoughts on being invisible

The speed of a turtle

October 2008

Obligation of the cured

Cancer Adventures – the book

Blue and orange town

Hope Couture

First snow

Simple pleasures are the best

128 quilts

September 2008

Whale watching and kite flying

The new and relaxed Gary

The scenic route
Packing the essentials

One step at a time

PSA count celebration

August 2008

Frost in August

Reading list

Soaring Spirits

Checking in

9:30am rock band

Lingering

July 2008

Grand for a reason

Mickey Mouse pancakes

Survivorship is all the rage

Follow your dreams

Birthday weekend

Only in America

Unrelated goose incident

June 2008

Geese

Road trip

Friday night date

Tough day on the job

Best dad

Confession

Light bulb moment

Homesick

Amazing volunteers

May 2008

Countdown

Extended family

Testing the limits

Trailblazers

The last lecture

Mother’s Day thoughts

Welcome to our world, Lydia

Personal touch

April 2008

Dispensing goodness

Cancer community – Part II

Cancer community

Barn door analogies

Homemade soup day

Mice and tumors

Waiting room magazines

Weekend date

First entry