day in the life
Highlighting
the everyday life of a couple living well with a slow-growing cancer.
Life isn’t
always easy, and there will certainly be sorrows and losses
along the way. But being alive is good. It is very good.
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Sunday,
September 25, 2011
Country girl signing off
I’m writing this in longhand (does anyone write in longhand
anymore?!) from a rocking chair on the porch of a beautiful
rustic cabin. Hubby and I are celebrating his birthday and 38 years of marriage
here in the Malheur National Forest near Yellowjacket
Lake.
The
idea was to sleep in, but my inner alarm clock woke me up at
6:30 – all three mornings. And
so, dressed in layers and hugging a steaming mug of orange spice
tea (Chai tea being the choice of early morning beverage, but no
Starbux within 150 miles of here),
I greeted the morning sun. Ah, pure pleasure.
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Greeting the morning sun |
We’ve kept the camera handy all weekend, just in case a big elk
or deer roamed through the clearing below the cabin. But other
than the small squirrel who kept us entertained storing up his
winter supply …
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Industrious neighbor |
… the only other wildlife that nosed near us were a couple of
cows.
Yellowjacket Lake is down a curving gravel road, over a
cattle guard and across a field where an old cabin and outhouse
still stand.
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Yellowjacket Lake sparkling in a late September
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Yesterday we checked out Sugarloaf Look Out, climbing the stairs as
far as we were allowed. Even from that vantage point, you can
see forever in all directions.
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Sugarloaf Look Out |
And tonight, an unbelievably be-jeweled sky. No light pollution
here. Hubby tried snapping a
few photos, but
you can imagine how those turned out without a Hubble space
telescope.
As far as I can tell, there’s
only been one drawback: My tea is growing cold and there’s no
microwave. Actually, there’s no electricity for a microwave.
(What did those settlers do in situations like this?!)
I can hear hubby clanking around in the kitchen, making his
specialty *from scratch* hash brown potatoes. Who cares that
your tea has grown cold when there’s a husband of 38 years
cooking breakfast?
Country girl signing off.
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Wednesday,
September 21, 2011
Off the grid
We’ll be off the grid this weekend celebrating hubby’s birthday
and our anniversary (same day, don’t ask).
A
colleague has provided us with use of his family’s
cabin out in the middle of nowhere, which just so happens to be
one of my favorite places.
No electricity, but propane lights and propane fridge and
propane stove. And an indoor flush toilet
–
important detail.
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Off
the grid on Yellowjacket Lake |
For those of you who thought the town of Burns in eastern Oregon
was out in the middle of nowhere, this cabin is on Yellowjacket
Lake about 45 minutes north of Burns.
We’re
talking out in the middle of nowhere
times ten.
It will be interesting to see how well Gary survives without his
electronic gadgets since there are no plug-ins to charge cell
phones, iPad or laptop.
“I sure hope the name of the lake doesn’t mean anything,” says
hubby.
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Sunday,
September 18, 2011
What are sisters for?!
Cheryl and I first met in our junior year at boarding high
school. Over Thanksgiving break, she invited me home with her to
the remote hills of Northern California. Her dad picked us up in
his small airplane – my first ride in a Cessna 182.
I fell in love with Cheryl’s entire family before I knew there
was a fourth brother in Denver (but that’s another story!). Cheryl
and I have been friends for longer than we’ve been
sisters-in-law.
Hubby and I had a speaking opportunity at a cancer center in
Northern California this week so we stayed a couple nights with
Gary’s sister, Cheryl, and her husband, Steve. The Whites.
Cheryl may look brunette in this photo, but she is very much
blonde at heart.
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After a lovely brunch one
morning with sis-in-law Cheryl,
bro-in-law Steve, 3 nieces
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I remember years ago when she was taking the hunter safety
course and missed a question about what weight bow was best for
hunting deer. “I chose the 10-lb bow,” she reasoned, “because
who wants to carry a 40-lb bow around with them?” Well, duh!
We were showing Steve and Cheryl photos from some of our travels
when she blurted out, “I want cancer!” Then she
thought about what she just said and corrected it: “Actually, I
want Steve to have cancer.”
While we were there, Cheryl took a couple of photos of Gary -
one before her special secret diet plan ...
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Before hubby’s sister’s special secret diet plan |
... and one after. See what you think.
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After the special secret diet plan |
I’ll
say this for sure: Never a dull moment at the White House!
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Saturday,
September 10, 2011
Try something new for 30 days
Confession: I started a 50,000-word novel on Sept 1. The plan is
to complete it by Sept 30, which equates to 1,667 words a day.
For 30 days.
I’ve never written a novel (well, if you don’t count the one I
started in fourth grade that I kept hidden between my
mattresses). I’ve never even had a desire to write fiction (see
comment on fourth grade). And I certainly don’t expect that a
novel written in 30 days will be any good, although hubby has
promised to read it: “I have to see if I’m in it,” he says.
But I love writing and this has been a fun project. And I’m on
track. Ten days into the exercise and I have 17,156 words under
my belt. For those of you doing the math, I’m ahead of schedule.
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So where in the world did this crazy idea come from?
It was actually inspired by Gretchen Rubin’s book
The Happiness Project.
Rubin
introduced me to No Plot? No Problem! A
Low-Stress, High-Velocity Guide to Writing a Novel
in 30 Days by Chris Baty.
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here I am. Ahead of schedule. |
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For further inspiration, daughter Summer posted a
TED Talks link back in July featuring Matt Cutts.
Cutts suggests that if there’s something you’ve always wanted to
do (or something you want to un-do), try it for 30 days.
Cutts challenged himself to take a picture every day for a
month. He also gave up sugar for a month, and went from
desk-dwelling computer nerd (his words) to hiking Mt.
Kilimanjaro in Africa.
Cutts: “If you really want something badly enough, you can do
anything for 30 days.” The premise is that small changes are
sustainable. And so I’m pushing myself to write … and I’m
thoroughly enjoying the challenge.
Note to hubby:
If you’re looking for you in my novel, you’re the
handsome stranger that sweeps the heroine off her feet and
together you ride off into the sunset. No wait, there are no
horses or sunsets in this novel.
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Monday,
September 05, 2011
For a limited time only
We may be a little biased, but it seems that people who don’t
hike in the Cascades are missing out on a whole lot of life.
Where else but along a central Oregon trail can you find fields
of snow and fields of wildflowers side by side?
Or skiers who have hiked up to the top of the hill before
shushing down …
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and skiers with just hiking boots and poles? Woot!
Where else but in the Cascades will you find sea foam green
lakes …
… and where else can you get your photo taken with some famous
Sisters?
Where else does flower power compete with hydro power in a daily
beauty contest?
So if
you need Cascade Mountain hiking guides
–
that would be us
–
book now because the 2011-12 winter season will be dropping by
real soon.
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Friday,
September 02, 2011
On the NCI web site
Back in 2009, hubby and I had the privilege to present our
survivorship message to seven people from various offices within
the National Cancer Institute (NCI). One of them was Louise
Cunningham, Public Health Advisor in the Office of Communication
and Education.
Lou and I chatted via e-mail in the following months. She had
the idea to highlight survivor stories from our
book
at the NCI web site with the intent to inspire and encourage
others dealing with cancer.
That was 2½ years ago.
A committee was formed to choose which survivors to feature;
updates were requested; stories were edited; committees of
people reviewed for content; consent forms were collected; and
the legal counselor and privacy officers had to have their say.
As Lou explained, sometimes things move slowwwly in
government.
At any rate, it’s
official as of today. The stories of eleven cancer heroes (love
these people, BTW) featured in our book are now posted to the
NCI web site. Be sure to notice the good-looking guy who
heads up the list.
And at the bottom of each page (you’re
gonna need a magnifying glass for this)
are these words:
The story on this page was first featured in the book Cancer
Adventures, by Marlys Johnson (Copyright © 2008 by Marlys
Johnson). Both the story and the photograph are owned by the
author and the survivor and are used with permission.
Thanks, Lou! You did an amazing job leading the charge with this
rather large project, and Gary and I feel so honored.
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August 2011
I don’t
make this stuff up
Brothers
Addictions
A lifetime
Club membership
Detours
Date night can’t
get much better
July 2010
Beauty in the high desert
Another shot at life
Happy Hour
Almost perfect
Enjoying the journey
Birthday week kick-off
I’ve become my mother
Bobby McFerrin + OBF
50 things to do
–
Part II
June 2010
Like what you do
Colorado wildlife
“Life
is good”
wisdom
Sad day
Rocky Mountain high
Cowboy sing-along
My kind of town
Please don’t feed the bears
Naming buildings
Low expectations
Heaven Can Wait
Because nice matters
May 2010
Don’t get to pick your
family
It’s in the bag
Only in Hawaii
Japanese-Hawaiian wedding
Meeting Yoshi
Happy campers
Gearing up for Hawaii
Hitting a rock wall
Love story
Oversized check
Extraordinary ordinary life
April 2010
Technology and pedicures
Idaho ranch hands
Blonde moments
Being in community
Live strong
Cutting edge
Florida in April
Easter blessings
March 2010
Heading east
March Madness
Welcome to spring
Half birthdays
Destinations
Most romantic bridge
Stellar team
Talent
Upgrading into the 21st
Century
February 2010
Uncles and nieces
Blue skies in Portland
The subject of
heroes
Caliber of our friends
Courage walking
Only in Southern California
Well trained
Diversity
Cream of the crop
January 2010
End of the tunnel
Disturbing the snow
Good things come to
an end
American mobile family
Get moving
Any excuse for a date
Much more than a sports flick
December 2009
All the facts are true
No-el, No-whale
Mountain snob
Going to Hawaii
Finding our own way
It's just a number
Seasons of Christmas
Civil War in the CTC
My life in France
November 2009
Empty cafeteria trays
A few of my favorite things
Counting eagles
America’s best and brightest
Thinking about
Large amounts of hope
Memories, milestones
Married to a very patient man
October 2009
Healing reins
Trail to nowhere
Above the fray
Knitting connections
Touching everything
Modern technology
Hot date spot
Red sock day
I got all my sisters with me
September 2009
Tenacious like a bulldog
Best years of my life
Now we should live
Across the high desert
50 things to do before you
die
Anticipation
Summer past and random
thoughts
Running to win
August 2009
Far cry from canned chili &
peas
Knight in shining armor
Berry-Peach Cobbler
Roller coaster rides
Celebrating life
Dan in Real Life
Ridiculous
Gift of life
Grant-writing retreat
July 2009
Heartsore
In the moment
Extended birthday present
River traffic
Munch & Music
Dealing with the paparazzi
Midnight cruise
Behind red doors
June 2009
Happy kind of exhausted
4:30am blog
Fat checkmarks
One of the benefits of cancer
Calm before the storm
Big picture thinking
May 2009
Back to the real world
Quick trip to the EC
Audacious living
Connecticut adventure
April 2009
Flat Stanley in Ory-gun
Baby steps
Four-day weekend
Soaring on wings
Sunbathing
C.O. style
Real men wear pink
Fun in the CTC
March 2009
Live like you were dying
Day jobs
Connected
CAN Cancer
The power of one
February 2009
It's official
Fun with the medical professionals
To my valentine
Moments in Jersey
January 2009
Leaving on a
jet plane
Scans ordered
Welcome to life
Insane residents
Back in high school
Engaged crowd
Out of the mouths of babes
Divine intervention
December 2008
Christmas
via webcam
A merry little
Christmas
Somewhere on purpose
Adventure and
romance
Celebrate life
Imagine
Men and menopause
November 2008
My Thanksgiving list
Thanksgiving
Eve
Roundabouts
How Starbucks
saved my life
Training for
Switzerland
Radio interview
Super colon
Thoughts on
being invisible
The speed of a turtle
October 2008
Obligation of
the cured
Cancer Adventures – the book
Blue and orange town
Hope Couture
First snow
Simple
pleasures are the best
128 quilts
September 2008
Whale watching
and kite flying
The new and relaxed Gary
The scenic
route
Packing the essentials
One step at a
time
PSA count celebration
August 2008
Frost in August
Reading list
Soaring Spirits
Checking in
9:30am rock band
Lingering
July 2008
Grand for a reason
Mickey Mouse
pancakes
Survivorship is all the rage
Follow your dreams
Birthday weekend
Only in America
Unrelated goose incident
June 2008
Geese
Road trip
Friday night date
Tough day on the job
Best dad
Confession
Light bulb moment
Homesick
Amazing volunteers
May
2008
Countdown
Extended family
Testing the limits
Trailblazers
The last lecture
Mother’s Day thoughts
Welcome to our world, Lydia
Personal touch
April 2008
Dispensing goodness
Cancer community – Part II
Cancer community
Barn
door analogies
Homemade soup day
Mice and tumors
Waiting room magazines
Weekend date
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